My Application to see Me
In order to receive My consideration you must submit to Me an introduction email request following the instructions given below. If I regard your introduction to be sincere and you have followed My instructions exactly, I will respond with an “LS Informational E-mali & name”
I will reply only to the email address from which the Introduction is received.
Helpful Hint: My inbox overflows with session requests that range in style from offensive one-liners to multiple-page ramblings varying from just about anything imaginable. These will most likely be deleted and ignored. If you want your Introduction to be read by Me take your time, be thoughtful and respectful ion your request while explicitly following the given instructions.
I will NOT reply to any correspondence that does not contain ALL of the following information:
- Your first AND last name — whether real or not — for My identification purposes.Do not use “sub” or “slave” as your first or last name. It is important that you identify yourself using both names EVERY TIME you correspond with Me until instructed otherwise.
- Your location
- phone number & skype contact.
- You must include a written explanation specifying what interests you hope to pursue with Me along with your level of experience and training, as well as any health problems and/or limitations.
- Let Me know who you have served and in what capacity. Include their contact information if you are comfortable with Me communicating with them to verify your history.
- Visit my website thesiren.nl and familiarize yourself with my rules and personality. .
- Type “LS INTRODUCTION EMAIL and name” in the Subject line. Do not change any Subject line I respond with until after our Phone Interview. I often sort and search for emails by the Subject line. If you change or omit a subject line, your email will probably get lost in My inbox.
- Things to think about when you writing your email
- What can you offer me?
- Do you understand i am a strict tease and denial domme
- How do you want to feel? Have you ever felt the way you want to feel? Under what circumstances?
- What do you think about when you touch yourself?
- What sexual/foreplay acts arouses you MOST intensely?
- What keywords that trigger your arousal or submissive response?
- Show me a few pictures, videos or stories which illustrate a feeling, act or dynamic you are interested in achieving.
- What are your BDSM soft and hard limits?
- What BDSM acts have you tried
- More specifically, what have you already tried that you know you enjoy or disliked? (examples like – sensual touching, bondage, blindfold, spanking, hair pulling, paddling/flogging, tease and denial, orgasm denial, anal, fisting, hot wax, etc) What about each of these things excites you? What about these things did you dislike?
- What BDSM acts would you like to try?
- What bondage/submission fantasies/roleplay do you desire? (boss & secretary, naughty schoolgirl & teacher, policeman & hooker) What about those scenes excite you? Who do you picture in either roles?
- Have you been tied up before?
- What kind of pain do you enjoy?
- How long do you like to play for?
- What sexual acts are you hoping for in scene? What do you not want?
- What kind of aftercare do you need?
- What sort of power dynamics/exchange are you interested in working with?
- What other kinks do you have?
- What have other Dommes done that you have loved?
- What other tops/Dommes that have bothered you?
- What parts of your body do you tend to feel most protective of?
- Ongoing or old injuries?
- Do you have any health issues I should be aware of?
- Do you have any breathing or circulation issues?
- What else should I know about your body?
Send to: chiaroscurosiren@gmail.com
